Oh come on some one tell them that you are ruining your beautiful life by comparing it with others . Everyone is too scared to fail. Who made failure a big deal ? sm1 else's success should inspire you , it should not make you to point out mistakes in them. Urgggg....
After all this pressure,most of the individuals start getting into relationships. One relationship leads to another , because you chose it as escape route. Women , they get mad in relationship , may be because of overemphasis on romance concept.Even i am woman , I usually get scared to go into relationship because of how woman in my surroundings behave . over expectations, May be they give a lot and the one who gives, will always demand . Is it wrong to expect from your partner . Why do they need to track where is he and several doubts on individuals . The answer lies in somewhere in our inner insecurities. All of us have some loneliness in our hearts , I guess this loneliness drives world. We reach out for other people to mitigate that inner loneliness.
He is not the answer to your inner loneliness .
Life will move on even without him , that's biggest truth.We can live without anybody/believe me anybody. What is the definition of love ? Love is i guess when we find ourselves beautiful in someone else's eyes. Media commercialized love for their own benefits. Love is a feeling not an expectation. Where there is a ego
, Love goes breathless. Love should breath . Love is the base of this universe. People forgot it and they started giving emphasis on the other subject named as Expectation + comparison.
I expected this , i got this. He expected this, He got that . Oh My God!! how can you be so partial . Sometimes It is difficult to make people understand . Especially the ones who are actually very near to you. there was so much noise of expectations and comparison that my voice fell flat ..
My whole life till now is against those unhealthy comparisons and expectations . Sometimes I feel psychologically tortured . When people think in such way . Screwed thinking . What's the way to progress? Make fool of others. then be prepared as someone else might be waiting for you to make fool of you.
Whats the god's greatest gift ? We can love anybody and everybody. Just be grateful for what you have. It was meant to be this way.
When am i going to learn pottery? I don't know, But in this lifetime . When am i going to learn singing and dancing? Of course i can sing well ...But need to learn it ......Save me from the world who got scared .....No intentions of being known as loser or something ;)
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